
Trauma and Recovery - an important book for our time
1 of 1 people found this review helpful.
As a professional mediator, I sometimes encounter elements of abuse in divorce cases and family conflicts. An exellent book to introduce victims of emotional abuse (and their friends and family) to the nature of the abusive mind is Patricia Evans' "The Verbally Abusive Relationship". After you've gained insight into that dynamic, Judith Herman's book provides the quintessential insight to the consequences to the victims.
People often judge victims of abuse, "Why doesn't she just leave?" "What's the big deal, it happens all the time." "Trauma and Recovery" will help you understand the psychological mechanisms that reduce options for people who have been trapped in abusive environments, either as children or as adults.
I often purchase both Evans' books and Herman's books on eBay; I then give them away to people who need to read them. Often I've been told that therapists don't get it; they tell their clients to "get over it" without really understanding the depth and nature of PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorger). Before you're tempted to say something similar to a survivor of abuse, read "Trauma and Recovery". You will understand the damage done and why victims require a slow, patient road to recovery.
Review ID: 10000000002447310

Thank you for voting. If your vote meets our
guidelines, it will be posted within 24 hours.
You cannot vote on the helpfulness of a review you wrote.
Your request cannot be processed at this time. Please try again later.