
Great DVD for teens!

I speak to groups on relational aggression which is the kind of emotional bullying that goes on in this movie. It has wonderful examples of ignoring, cyber-bullying, exclusion and several other types of relational aggression in it. I would recommend mothers watching this with their 12 to 14 year old daughters just to get the conversation going about this type of bullying that usually flies under the radar. Girls need to feel like they can talk to someone if this is happening to them. I have two beefs with this movie: The ending was hokey. Behavioral change on this kind of bullying doesn't come quickly and doesn't end with the target telling the aggressor off. The target was a little too innocent, too. In most cases, given the opportunity and power-base, the target would do the same thing to the aggressor. No one is innocent in real life. Just power-hungry. True change comes when the kids in the middle--the ones watching this on the sidelines--step up and interrupt what is going on and call it what it is...bullying. It will also end when mothers quit teaching their daughters to act this way. I've seen adults do pretty much the same thing in the workplace. This gossipy back-biting has to stop somewhere. The first thing we need to all do is recognize that we do it at times, and apologize. Then tell our daughters about our bad behavior and tell that we apologized. Good role-modeling goes a LONG way.
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