
Good, Common Sense Advice

You can't beat a classic! This book is straight-forward and practical. It is like a conversation with a wise old grandfather. I am so glad that there is still a parenting book around that isn't afraid to tell a parent to be the authority figure. I have always been unassertive and afraid to be in charge of my children. This book opened my eyes that I must take the God-appointed role of authority figure over my children. Allowing your children to do as they please and not intervening is wrong. You are entrusted with their lives and you must guide them to obey you so they will later be able to obey other authority figures as well as God. I know some believe Dr. Dobson as harsh and his advocation of spanking in situations where it is warranted is wrong. I'm not saying that alternatives to spanking never work, but in some children, it is the most effective form of discipline when used CORRECTLY. Dr. Dobson stresses that you don't just haul off and hit the kid. You must have clear boundaries set and if the child is repeatedly willfully disobedient, you explain that a spanking is the consequence of the behavior. Spanking is not to be an angry reaction to childish behavior. He makes that very clear. So, clear up all your misconceptions about Dr. Dobson and read the book!
In addition, I have tried the warm-fuzzy Christian parenting books like How to Really Love Your Child. I found it to be ineffective at our house. No matter how much I 'filled our strong-willed child's emotional tank', the negative behavior still continued. Maybe it works for some or I did not try it long enough. However, the effects of Dr. Dobson's methods are almost immediate. I felt empowered immediately while reading the book. While I'm still trying to overcome the desire to be my children's 'friend', I feel this book has set me on the correct path to effective parenting.
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