Loving Someone With Bipolar Disorder by John D. Preston, Julie A. Fast (2004, Paperback)

It is rare that I've read something that made a real difference in the quailty of my life and that of my family's. This book understands those of us who are dealing with a bipolar family member. It provides effective strategies for dealing with the disorder while maintaining a loving relationship. Much of it can be used even without the full co-operation of the aflicted loved one. It is most effective, however, when both parties work through the suggested activities together. There is a necessary down side near the end, where the book talks about ending relationships that are too adversely impacted by the disorder. By this time, the reader at least has had the opportunity to consider some very good suggestions which might make this section moot.

After 15 years in a bipolar relationship, I finally found somebody who actually understood my side and offered true help. Great book. Not only does it give empathy to the reader, but also offers solutions. Was tired of reading all the books that said "get out" - was looking at one that offered me success in my marriage. I have fought so hard for so long, I did not want to give up now! Also good to share with your person who has been diagnosed bp. Informs both of things you may not have thought of!

I wanted to find the most information that I could so I could understand the illness. The book was helpful. There was a lot of information in it that I was already aware of, but I would still recommend it to anyone that searching for the answers.

The book is in good condition. This is my first buy and have no other to compare. I bought the book because It sounds like what I was looking for. I hope it helps me find answers to my own situation.

I liked that it was easy to read and very helpful for both the person with BP and their loved ones. I just dont care to do lists and workbook stuff, but for those that it is great.

When I started reading this book I was felt lost and alone. I felt as though I had nothing left, but as I turned every page I realized that I was not alone. I have witnessed many of the symptoms of bipolar and they were described exactly in the book. The mood changes, rapid cycling, depression, anger, anxiety, manic episodes, alcohol abuse to numb his frustration. I know the real person is still there beneith it all.
I now know I can get my loved one to get the help he needs without hurting our relationship. Thank you for writing this book. I would strongly recomend this book.