Codependent No More by Melody Beattie (2006, Paperback)

This is a classic 'must read' for anyone who loves an addict and wants to stay healthy. Melody Beattie shares her experience, strength and hope from the heart. She has gone on to write other books which continue to affirm that pain in life is inevitable but suffering is optional. We don't have to lose ourselves in the delusions of others or be a victim or a martyr. Serenity is not life outside the storm...it's the calm eye at the center.

great for self esteem, to put things in perspective, and move forward from difficult situations! Very practical and on the dot about characteristics of a codependent person. Reassures the reader that there is hope and that with some work and dedication one can take control of their life and make decisions that will allow one to take care of themselves!
Definitely recommend this book!

A must for anyone having difficult times with family---with that said everyone needs this book in their library. Good read and helpful reminders.

I loved the book. I got this book a couple of weeks ago; it was just exactly what I needed!!! The book was in perfect shape! Thank you! I have a personal growth instructor helping me, and he advised me to read it that was a wonderful book to read! I have read others and this one was by far the most "cut to the case”. It covers many actions we do to get results we don't want! There are short test and example stories that really help!
In the end of the book it goes over many resources to find additional help including groups and books!

That was the quickest delivery of a book I have ever received. Thanks so much !!! I haven't had to time yet to read it, but I wanted it and I now have it and its was brand new.

Purchased it for a friend, friend reports the book is very informative. The purchase was reasonably price and shipped out fast.

This was a very good book for breaking down how we get from Point A to Point B, or why we act and react the way we do. It explains the influences and nuances of the words and deeds exchanged in our relationships and the effects these have on our minds, bodies and souls. The author has a treasure trove of suggestions for improving, healing and solving problems within yourself and with others. It is written from the perspective of a recovering addict and alcoholic, but the no-nonsense, common sense approach taken by the author can be beneficial to anyone, as long as you can concentrate on finding the parts that apply to you. This book will have you laughing, crying, nodding your head, and maybe even having a revelation or two about yourself and the people in your life.

The book can be a bit confusing in that you'll be reading along applying the author's words to your life, then the descriptions start to sound like someone else or seem not to apply to you at all. This book is not intended to be a one-size-fits-all cure. Generically written so it has mass appeal, you will have to remember that not all of the presentations, vignettes, self tests and suggestions will apply. It's up to you to figure that out. Nonetheless, this book is very thought-provoking and is presented in a clear, concise, logical way that seems to leave no stone unturned. It makes you think.

Recommended to me by a holistic psychotherapist and life coach, I recommend this book for anyone struggling with an addict/alcoholic, is an addict/alcoholic, views themseles as a victim or as an abuser, or for anyone just struggling in some area of their life. It is a great 'workout' for your mind and spirit, and it may help people not only understand, but make strides to heal, improve and become a better, happier person in mind, body and spirit.

Just getting into it strongly, but it's answering a LOT of issues about myself, other people, and the fears and issues I have with all of the above. There are a lot of vague issues concerning codependency, and Melody seems to address them all. It's making me wish I'd purchased this book 25 years ago, and it's something I hope to be able to pass on to my kids so they can understand what it is, how to address it, and whether or not to allow codependency into their lives (before THEY are 50 years old).

I highly recommend it, and HAVE A HIGHLIGHTER close by, and a pen as you'll want to savor every morsel of the goods she has to offer.

Enjoy the read......... it's worth every bit.

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I would highly recommend this book to ANYONE. It reads easily, gives various situations to relate to and is a MUST for anyone with a troubled friend or family member.

This book is FANTASTIC... I cannot praise Melody Beattie enough. I read this book in 2001 or so. My husband (now ex-husband) on friendly terms now ... started smoking crack all of the sudden ... Guess it was a midlife crisis... who knows. If it were not for this book... I don't know where I would be today. I am happy and living very well.
Most important thing I had gotten from this book is exactly how to treat the addict the right way. With love and compassion. It worked.. I did leave hubby ... but on positive terms and now ex-hubby changed from Crack to alcohol. But he's better than he was on crack!
When I was crying my eyes out all night long when hubby was out doing drugs ... leaving wife and kids to wonder where the hell he was at... I would read this book after I put my son to bed. Codependent No More by Melody Beattie SAVED ME AND MY SANITY!!! I lost my old copy or loaned it to help someone else... so now I've bought this copy for my step-daughter tell help her deal with her wicked alcoholic mother. Thanks Karen

This is an easy read with excellent examples and explanations. I've hardly been able to put this down.

A book that adds endless value to your life. I wish I would have learned this 20 years ago. Chapters 4-17 opens your eyes to great "ah-ha's" that can lead to a better quality of life. Best book I've ever read, my husband felt the same a year after I read it.

I was very pleased with the book and it's condition. It was as it was described. I will buy from this seller again.

This book is really amazing! Melody Beattie writes so down to earth....The way she says things really makes absolute sense and I see myself, others and my life so clearly....It has helped me a great deal. I think most people could benefit from reading it. She is very kind and nonjudgemental about her observations and real life experiences.

Disappointed that book received was different edition than book pictured. But condition of the book was fine & shipping time was good.

Oldie but goodie. Sound advice that never goes out of style. This is an updated version of the original. For all the co-dependants in your life.

This book opened my eyes to how codependent I was. The only problem is the 12-step program was really pushed. This program has a negative connotation to some people.

This is a great book...it is in perfect condition. I love this book! Needed to get a copy for myself and stop borrowing someone else's.

I never received book from the seller. I was ripped off! I am still interested in the book, but am wary of buying it on ebay.